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		Comment on Why Hope Isn&#8217;t As Good As You Think It Is by Arsène Hodali		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2025 00:18:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://danceproof.com/why-hope-isnt-good/comment-page-2/#comment-28816&quot;&gt;Dan&lt;/a&gt;.

Wow. Thank you for this insight, sincerely. I&#039;ll keep your words with me.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://danceproof.com/why-hope-isnt-good/comment-page-2/#comment-28816">Dan</a>.</p>
<p>Wow. Thank you for this insight, sincerely. I&#8217;ll keep your words with me.</p>
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		Comment on Why Hope Isn&#8217;t As Good As You Think It Is by Dan		</title>
		<link>https://danceproof.com/why-hope-isnt-good/comment-page-2/#comment-28816</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2025 13:13:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[On the subject of Optimism vs. Pessimism, my guy William James had much to say. In his 1895 lecture “Is Life Worth Living?” he offers a third alternative. Not necessarily the optimist’s “Yes,” nor the pessimist’s “No,” but “Maybe.” Some have criticized this as wishy-washy but James says “maybe” is life’s default mode. All projects, all science, all creative works depend on suspending disbelief, rejecting blithe optimism, and living for the possibility. So is life worth living? It depends on your attitude. “Refuse to believe, and you shall indeed be right, for you shall irretrievably perish. But believe, and again you shall be right, for you shall save yourself.” Optimism and pessimism are false choices. The only viable option lies between. “You make one or the other of two possible universes true by your trust or mistrust — both universes having been only maybes.”]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On the subject of Optimism vs. Pessimism, my guy William James had much to say. In his 1895 lecture “Is Life Worth Living?” he offers a third alternative. Not necessarily the optimist’s “Yes,” nor the pessimist’s “No,” but “Maybe.” Some have criticized this as wishy-washy but James says “maybe” is life’s default mode. All projects, all science, all creative works depend on suspending disbelief, rejecting blithe optimism, and living for the possibility. So is life worth living? It depends on your attitude. “Refuse to believe, and you shall indeed be right, for you shall irretrievably perish. But believe, and again you shall be right, for you shall save yourself.” Optimism and pessimism are false choices. The only viable option lies between. “You make one or the other of two possible universes true by your trust or mistrust — both universes having been only maybes.”</p>
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		Comment on The Good Life Playlist: A Pep Talk In Text Form by Aarti		</title>
		<link>https://danceproof.com/good-life-playlist/comment-page-1/#comment-25307</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Aarti]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Mar 2024 07:50:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Your &#039;Good Life Playlist&#039; concept is truly inspiring! It&#039;s amazing how curated selections of meaningful content can serve as a source of motivation and perspective. Your dedication to crafting this playlist and sharing its impact is a reminder of the power of literature, talks, and art to uplift us in challenging times. Thank you for sharing your insights and encouraging others to create their own playlists for inspiration.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your &#8216;Good Life Playlist&#8217; concept is truly inspiring! It&#8217;s amazing how curated selections of meaningful content can serve as a source of motivation and perspective. Your dedication to crafting this playlist and sharing its impact is a reminder of the power of literature, talks, and art to uplift us in challenging times. Thank you for sharing your insights and encouraging others to create their own playlists for inspiration.</p>
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		Comment on 10 Things Dance Taught Me About Life (Part 2) by Pooja		</title>
		<link>https://danceproof.com/dance-life-lessons-2/comment-page-1/#comment-25305</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Pooja]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Mar 2024 14:55:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Absolutely! Dance has this incredible ability to teach us valuable life lessons that extend far beyond the dance floor. Whether you&#039;re a dancer, an artist, a writer, or anyone pursuing a passion, there&#039;s wisdom to be gleaned from your craft. It&#039;s all about recognizing the parallels between what you do and the challenges and joys of life. Embrace the journey, seek out those lessons, and let your passion guide you towards a life lived to the fullest. So, go out there, immerse yourself in your craft, and let it be your dance through life!
Thank you.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Absolutely! Dance has this incredible ability to teach us valuable life lessons that extend far beyond the dance floor. Whether you&#8217;re a dancer, an artist, a writer, or anyone pursuing a passion, there&#8217;s wisdom to be gleaned from your craft. It&#8217;s all about recognizing the parallels between what you do and the challenges and joys of life. Embrace the journey, seek out those lessons, and let your passion guide you towards a life lived to the fullest. So, go out there, immerse yourself in your craft, and let it be your dance through life!<br />
Thank you.</p>
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		Comment on 10 NONFICTIONAL books that will f**k up your reality (and make you smarter). by Kyle		</title>
		<link>https://danceproof.com/10-nonfictional-books-that-will-fk-up-your-reality-and-make-you-smarter/comment-page-4/#comment-24592</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kyle]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Nov 2023 08:03:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Its great to come across a book list where you&#039;ve read some of them already... it makes you feel confident about the other recommendations. 
Looking forward to checking the rest of these out!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Its great to come across a book list where you&#8217;ve read some of them already&#8230; it makes you feel confident about the other recommendations.<br />
Looking forward to checking the rest of these out!</p>
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		Comment on What It&#8217;s Like Having Schizoid Personality Disorder by Name		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Name]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jan 2020 13:50:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://danceproof.com/what-like-having-schizoid-personality-disorder/comment-page-1/#comment-8657&quot;&gt;Ambassador to the Secret Society&lt;/a&gt;.

&quot;we can move on to impacting the world around us.&quot;

That&#039;s actually the point of the &quot;hyper focused inward narcissism&quot; RE: high expectations of self/others.

Dumb ass.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://danceproof.com/what-like-having-schizoid-personality-disorder/comment-page-1/#comment-8657">Ambassador to the Secret Society</a>.</p>
<p>&#8220;we can move on to impacting the world around us.&#8221;</p>
<p>That&#8217;s actually the point of the &#8220;hyper focused inward narcissism&#8221; RE: high expectations of self/others.</p>
<p>Dumb ass.</p>
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		Comment on What It&#8217;s Like Having Schizoid Personality Disorder by Cypresses		</title>
		<link>https://danceproof.com/what-like-having-schizoid-personality-disorder/comment-page-1/#comment-15915</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Cypresses]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Aug 2019 00:02:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I can’t apprehend the multitudes of people who happily label themselves as schizoid. Why the hell would you consciously want to be someone who’s more comfortable alone? Because you can’t muster enough courage to deal with the world? Because you have some Ayn Rand-like desire for a title that explains away your failures to form deep relationships with people as a positive? Because you have this wrongheaded belief that you’re above all else since “they just can’t fathom you?” Being schizoid leaves you with the ever-present thought of there being nothing for you here. Why would you want to feel that? Please don’t group me in with anyone who pridefully calls themselves schizoid, most likely they’re not (I’d rather call myself weird, but schizoid comprehends me better) and I can’t stand the idea of a diagnosis being distorted by means of the impostors outnumbering the genuine (which I wholly suspect they already do).

I will start with I happily label myself as having schizoid. You take aim at the idea of pridefully having SPD as being a power stroke to ones ego for being different. In part with this you pose the argument of why would you want to consciously be someone who prefers being alone, well why not? There is no harm in being able to take comfort in one&#039;s own skin and person. It naturally would figure that this is actually a very positive image of one&#039;s person so long as they aren&#039;t pushing their ego beyond a realistic image (e.g. being omnipotent). It is important that all people have social skills as interaction with the outside world is inedible. It has been noted that those with SPD have no issue in their social skills as they don&#039;t lack empathy in the ability to understand others emotions. What is clear is that there is a lack in the ability to relate and share in the same experience as others from a personal standpoint.

You state that the sense of superiority that follows in those with SPD is a result of others not being able to fathom them. I have never seen the argument of ones own superiority come from others not liking them in relation to SPD. My opinion to the sense of superiority found in those truly with SPD follows from self sufficiency as far as the psyche. Because those with SPD are self reliant on providing their own stimulus from the inner world unlike others who derive theirs from social interactions. This use of defining characteristic of those with SPD is not something to be thought as intrinsically a thought of complete superiority over others in all senses like some Übermensch. This sense of being superior only covers the as for mentioned aspect of self -sufficiency. Your view would be to say a welder is unable to be called superior in mashing medal together with fire because a baker is better at making cakes. It&#039;s not a totality view as much a scoped one.

From your text &quot;This schizoid detachment from self is also apparent during sex. If say I have sex with you, I won’t truly feel I’m having sex with you unless in the act I also imagine myself having sex with you.&quot; This does make me feel like you do understand some of the struggles of having SPD. But the fact you even weight the possibility that thinking of the very person you&#039;re having sex with may be a form of cheating is laughable. 

The concept of personality disorders being more of a spectrum, or so from my comprehension by posing schizotypy over the DSM makes me feel there is a lack of knowledge being displayed. To mash disorders together onto a spectrum such as the string  schizophrenia, schizoaffective disorder, schizoid personality disorder and schizotypal personality disorder would be to suggest it is all stemming from the same roots. The only variation would be the degree and overall symptoms along this continuum. But the underlying features of all these disorders vary significantly despite sharing many overtly common features. To do this would be crass such as lumping anything with flu like symptoms as the same disease becuase they all share flu like symptoms. While all the potential diseases that could fall into this maxim clearly would be very different diseases the same way the before mentioned disorders are all very different.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can’t apprehend the multitudes of people who happily label themselves as schizoid. Why the hell would you consciously want to be someone who’s more comfortable alone? Because you can’t muster enough courage to deal with the world? Because you have some Ayn Rand-like desire for a title that explains away your failures to form deep relationships with people as a positive? Because you have this wrongheaded belief that you’re above all else since “they just can’t fathom you?” Being schizoid leaves you with the ever-present thought of there being nothing for you here. Why would you want to feel that? Please don’t group me in with anyone who pridefully calls themselves schizoid, most likely they’re not (I’d rather call myself weird, but schizoid comprehends me better) and I can’t stand the idea of a diagnosis being distorted by means of the impostors outnumbering the genuine (which I wholly suspect they already do).</p>
<p>I will start with I happily label myself as having schizoid. You take aim at the idea of pridefully having SPD as being a power stroke to ones ego for being different. In part with this you pose the argument of why would you want to consciously be someone who prefers being alone, well why not? There is no harm in being able to take comfort in one&#8217;s own skin and person. It naturally would figure that this is actually a very positive image of one&#8217;s person so long as they aren&#8217;t pushing their ego beyond a realistic image (e.g. being omnipotent). It is important that all people have social skills as interaction with the outside world is inedible. It has been noted that those with SPD have no issue in their social skills as they don&#8217;t lack empathy in the ability to understand others emotions. What is clear is that there is a lack in the ability to relate and share in the same experience as others from a personal standpoint.</p>
<p>You state that the sense of superiority that follows in those with SPD is a result of others not being able to fathom them. I have never seen the argument of ones own superiority come from others not liking them in relation to SPD. My opinion to the sense of superiority found in those truly with SPD follows from self sufficiency as far as the psyche. Because those with SPD are self reliant on providing their own stimulus from the inner world unlike others who derive theirs from social interactions. This use of defining characteristic of those with SPD is not something to be thought as intrinsically a thought of complete superiority over others in all senses like some Übermensch. This sense of being superior only covers the as for mentioned aspect of self -sufficiency. Your view would be to say a welder is unable to be called superior in mashing medal together with fire because a baker is better at making cakes. It&#8217;s not a totality view as much a scoped one.</p>
<p>From your text &#8220;This schizoid detachment from self is also apparent during sex. If say I have sex with you, I won’t truly feel I’m having sex with you unless in the act I also imagine myself having sex with you.&#8221; This does make me feel like you do understand some of the struggles of having SPD. But the fact you even weight the possibility that thinking of the very person you&#8217;re having sex with may be a form of cheating is laughable. </p>
<p>The concept of personality disorders being more of a spectrum, or so from my comprehension by posing schizotypy over the DSM makes me feel there is a lack of knowledge being displayed. To mash disorders together onto a spectrum such as the string  schizophrenia, schizoaffective disorder, schizoid personality disorder and schizotypal personality disorder would be to suggest it is all stemming from the same roots. The only variation would be the degree and overall symptoms along this continuum. But the underlying features of all these disorders vary significantly despite sharing many overtly common features. To do this would be crass such as lumping anything with flu like symptoms as the same disease becuase they all share flu like symptoms. While all the potential diseases that could fall into this maxim clearly would be very different diseases the same way the before mentioned disorders are all very different.</p>
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		Comment on Why It&#8217;s Important To Protect The Innocence Of Children by Liv		</title>
		<link>https://danceproof.com/why-protect-innocence-children/comment-page-1/#comment-14524</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Liv]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Apr 2019 02:31:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[You don&#039;t even know what you&#039;re talking about. What happens when a kid loses their innocence too soon? Thats all you had to answer but the only answer I got was death. No, obviously not! Why is it unsafe? What are they losing? Stop talking in metaphors! A kid seeing a drag queen is not the same as a baby playing in traffic. I just want to know why it&#039;s important to protect them from stuff like sex and you did a shit job of explaining it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You don&#8217;t even know what you&#8217;re talking about. What happens when a kid loses their innocence too soon? Thats all you had to answer but the only answer I got was death. No, obviously not! Why is it unsafe? What are they losing? Stop talking in metaphors! A kid seeing a drag queen is not the same as a baby playing in traffic. I just want to know why it&#8217;s important to protect them from stuff like sex and you did a shit job of explaining it.</p>
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		Comment on What It&#8217;s Like Having Schizoid Personality Disorder by Anonymous		</title>
		<link>https://danceproof.com/what-like-having-schizoid-personality-disorder/comment-page-1/#comment-9110</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Anonymous]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Mar 2018 01:48:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Isn&#039;t schizoid just &#039;extreme&#039; introversion as a result of being hypersensitive to the &#039;outside&#039; world. Therefore to focus on the outside world is to bring pain and emotional instability however it is a far greater compromise with reality than to &#039;turn inwards&#039; no matter how great the temptation may be...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Isn&#8217;t schizoid just &#8216;extreme&#8217; introversion as a result of being hypersensitive to the &#8216;outside&#8217; world. Therefore to focus on the outside world is to bring pain and emotional instability however it is a far greater compromise with reality than to &#8216;turn inwards&#8217; no matter how great the temptation may be&#8230;</p>
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		Comment on Truths That Men Have About Women by Amynonamous		</title>
		<link>https://danceproof.com/truths-men-women/comment-page-3/#comment-9089</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Amynonamous]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Mar 2018 17:09:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[That could&#039;ve been a lot worse...Lol]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That could&#8217;ve been a lot worse&#8230;Lol</p>
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